Parish of St. Edward the Confessor Daily Lenten/Easter Reflections


lent
March  1, 2008

By

Jean Padula


lent

Reading 1
Psalm
Gospel

Text of Reflection:  
March 1, 2008

The readings today contrast two patterns of religious living. The first is that of a person who fasts, prays regularly, pays tithes and attends church faithfully. The second is a person who reaches out to others, loves them unconditionally, and serves them as the Lord leads. One could say these are two different approaches to living a life which, hopefully, is pleasing to God.
 
If I had to pick one over the other, (and I probably have on innumerable occasions), I'd pick the life of prayer and church attendance. That's a life which is neat, organized, and comfortable. That's a life where I can be in control of what happens, and I like that. I can decide which part of my day is for prayer, and how many Masses a week I'll attend. I decide if and when I'll fast, and what part of my income goes to the Lord's work. At the end of each day I can feel like a good person, who can put an imaginary check mark after every devotional assignment I've given myself.
 
It is not so for the other spiritual approach. When my top priorities are love, mercy and obedience, I give up control over my life. I just never know when the Lord will tap me on the shoulder and direct me to befriend a lonely soul, contribute to a worthwhile cause, involve myself in the life of a struggling family. There is no end to the list of what the Lord might ask me to do, (just as there's no end to what He does for each of us). My life can become filled with inconveniences and entanglements over which I have no control. Gone are the familiar rhythms and routines of a life I would choose for myself. At the end of the day, there may be no satisfying sense of completion because I've opened my heart to the Lord, and He's shown me how much more there is to be done.
 
It's no wonder one of the ongoing themes in the Bible has to do with God's desire for our love and obedience over sacrifice. It's an unpopular concept with us humans, so we have to be constantly reminded that it's important to the Lord.
 
Of course, the Lord isn't asking us to choose between these two approaches to a full life in Him. We just need to remember that praying and fasting are not the ends in themselves. Their value lies in the fact that they bring us to the threshold through which we are drawn to a closer relationship with our Lord. Inside that relationship, He can reveal to us who's to be loved and served in His name. Our spiritual devotions, therefore, prepare us to be the lover and servant of others, living the life which is pleasing to God.